About

Publications

In print

  • “Confessions of a Lesbian Dad,” essay in Confessions of the Other Mother, ed. Harlyn Aizley (Boston: Beacon, 2006). Confessions of the Other Mother was a finalist for Best Anthology in the 2006 Lambda Literary Awards.

 

 

 

  • "Working With LGBTQ Families: A Fact Sheet," published November, 2017 by the National Resource Center for Healthy Marriage and Families, a service of the Office of Family Assistance, Administration for Children and Families, U.S. Department of Health and Human Services.

Online

  • Lesbian Dad: notes from the crossroads of mother and father. A personal essay and photography blog published actively from 2006 to 2013, passively thereafter. Upwards of 1,200 posts. Unless noted, all photographs are mine; all the writing is.

 

  • VillageQ: where queer meets family. LGBTQ Family magazine site, formerly Lesbian Family. Co-founded and served as Editor-in-Chief from 2012 to 2014.

 

 

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On video

"Thanks Giving"

ESSAY READING

Delivered at BlogHer's first Voices of the Year Community Keynote, San Francisco, 2008.

"Straight On 'Til Morning"

ESSAY READING

Delivered at Listen to Your Mother,

San Francisco, 2013.

"Ten Lessons from Ten Years Blogging as Lesbian Dad"

KEYNOTE PRESENTATION

Delivered as one of the 10x10 Keynotes, BlogHer Conference, San José, 2014.

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