• Lesbian Dad: notes from the crossroads of mother and father. A personal essay and photography blog published actively from 2006 to 2013, passively thereafter. Upwards of 1,200 posts. Unless noted, all photographs are mine; all the writing is.
  • VillageQ: where queer meets family. LGBTQ Family magazine site, formerly Lesbian Family. Co-founded and served as Editor-in-Chief from 2012 to 2014.
  • "What I know About Motherhood As An Unconventional Parent," May 10, 2013, in Huffington Post (solicited contribution for a series).
  • "It's All Relatives," guest post at Family Equality Council blog, July 22, 2007.


In print


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hello my name is sticker: old name, Polly; new name, Pauly
NB: my digital footprint pre-2019 appears under an earlier spelling of my name.

Visual media


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  • Reading the essay "Thanksgiving" at BlogHer's first "Voices of the Year" community keynote, San Francisco, 2008.


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  • Reading the essay "Straight On 'Til Morning" at Listen to Your Mother, San Francisco, 2013.


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  • Presenting "Ten Years of Lesbian Dad" as one of BlogHer's 10 x 10 keynotes at the 10-Year Anniversary BlogHer Conference, San José, 2014.