• Lesbian Dad: notes from the crossroads of mother and father. A personal essay and photography blog published actively from 2006 to 2013, passively thereafter. Upwards of 1,200 posts. Unless noted, all photographs are mine; all the writing is.
  • VillageQ: where queer meets family. LGBTQ Family magazine site, formerly Lesbian Family. Co-founded and served as Editor-in-Chief from 2012 to 2014.
  • "What I know About Motherhood As An Unconventional Parent," May 10, 2013, in Huffington Post (solicited contribution for a series).
  • "It's All Relatives," guest post at Family Equality Council blog, July 22, 2007.


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hello my name is sticker: old name, Polly; new name, Pauly
My writing pre-2019 appears under the initial spelling of my first name (i.e., Polly), before I ironed out the cognitive tension by updating the spelling to Pauly.